Honey you will be fine!
*this is a really old draft which I found today..was written in the month of april!
P.S. This post is for 2 girls who are very dear to me. And they know who they are :)
Life is mostly weird and pointless. And oh yeah, its vicissitudes are vast and complex (to quote JKR). Things are thrown at us in such a random fashion that sometimes when they hit you without expectations, its really difficult to not get bogged down. I have learnt to call such instances happening to me as 'growing up'. It doesnt sound very wise (but who cares). But it gives me the option to choose, between what I have become and what I want to be, from what I was.
There are things a normal girl always wants. Her freedom, a place to call home, someone to love and care and her independence. When any of these things gets threatened, its really difficult to accept the change of scene or the consequences of what it might imply. And you two are doing it really well.
You are my role models. Not only because, you have managed to handle these situations, but you have never made any fuss about it. I admire your strength and courage, to keep it cool. I wish I could just give you a hug.
~nightflier