My SMI

Pre script : SMI = social media intervention. Lame as it may sound.


Henceforth, I am going to curb the urge to google/facebook search/linkedin search anyone I meet online, unless of course, I have to engage with them in some kind of work (work-work, creative collaboration, guidance, etc etc).
I am suffering from googling/linked in-ing any random person , remotely interesting. Yes I am trolling them in my own way. And I don’t like it.


Because it leaves so less a chance for serendipity! Imagine meeting/chatting with someone and realizing you have so many friends/experiences in common, unconsciously. And horror of horrors imagine ‘knowing’ all this and then pretending you did not know anything beforehand, when the serendipitous facts come out tumbling by.
And sometimes I dont even want to know about any common stuff in any way. With some people its just the lesser the better.


Enough said.


~nightflier

2 responses to “My SMI”

  1. neha Avatar

    hehe 🙂
    I used to do a google/linkedin check on my groupmates and my work colleagues. And everytime while talking to them, I used to hear a familiar fact, and think "now from where do i know this", and it used to be from my trolling. However the trolling died away and I feel glad that it did.

  2. Upasna Avatar

    hehe i had a peak of doing just this and slowly it died away. I'm growing older to realise I need to 'meet' to connect. maybe the online overdose.

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