Linking people or not ?

Disclaimer: To each his own


Since the dawn of gmail in my life, I have come a long way in learning how the world is trying to connect using the internet. People who have been using internet pre-gmail will consider me backward. And I think so too. But I was not exposed to computers and related technologies growing up much, and I have no particular regrets about that. In truth, life was simpler, without the compulsion to be involved in many unnecessary things.


The thing is with deeper penetration of social media in our daily lives, I wonder why people are apprehensive about using it. Today over lunch, a girl said she doesnt want to be on linkedin because your profile shows up on google search and she did not want anyone to know where she worked or what she did.
Of course security/privacy concern wise I understand. And to each his own. Really.


But with my increasing belief in solving problems collaboratively, rather than being stuck on some issue all by yourself, not knowing what to do next, I think networks are cool. If privacy is not your issue. 
Also what I found amusing was the thought that what if my manager/employer found out that I was networking!
Another amusing thing I have heard is if I move on to a new job my ex-colleagues will find out what my new position is. I mean isn’t that the purpose, ideally ? To make sure your advancements are visible, so that you can be reached out for any kind of guidance. May be this is too much idealistic talk.
Even stranger is when people are willing to contact a consultant/contractor during their job hunts, but are not so  willing to contact company representatives like HR directly on linkedin. Does it stem out of diverting the system where we are used to do things through agents and contractors? I think direct contact with any HR makes the process more visible and transparent.


What makes me think about this even more is I dont think any of the founders thought about these things while trying to imagine a network of connected people, through their skills, work experience and education. 


I would like to believe that most people are not aware, how one can utilize all this networ(th)k effect to come across as a capable, able prospect for any kind of guidance required in any field.


Having said all this, 2 years back I was a person who did not understand the concept of networking during school job fairs. I struggled to put myself across effectively (it was a cultural thing). Eventually I did learn and I feel the importance of professional networks even more. And hence I champion them.


~nightflier


P.S. Feel compelled to add as an afterthought, that everyone needs to find the comfort zone in such ecosystem. Like the first line of the post.

7 responses to “Linking people or not ?”

  1. Ketaki... Avatar

    I might be wrong about this but you know how when were back in college we refrained from giving out phone nos on social networking sites. Most of us still do thinking any unwanted "entity" should not call us. But a year ago during my 'desperate' job search I put my number/email on Linkedin and its still there. And I haven't EVER received any unwanted call/email.

    It kind of put the whole "privacy" thing in perspective for me. It was a confirmation that "People aren't as interested in you/your life as much you think they are".. 🙂

  2. nightflier Avatar

    I know what you say when you say 'personal touch'. And I agree. But then to think of it, technology has made it really possible for me to be in 'touch' with you (long distance) friends, and that's a pro.
    I also think usability comes from customizing it to suit your needs, given the fact that, there are so many resources. May be all this is very nascent now, and eventually we will reach that point of everyone's comfort zone 🙂

  3. nightflier Avatar

    yeah. agree. I dont disagree with the privacy stands people have, I just want to understand from where they come from.

  4. nightflier Avatar

    oh well. I think I can live without internet but then when I am using it and see how productively useful it can be (apart from minor occasional digressions) I think about all the stuff I wrote in the post 🙂

  5. neha Avatar

    Inspite of being in the technology-field by profession, I do sometimes have serious doubts about technology and "networking". Maybe, profession-wise it really does help, meeting new people to solve a problem by doing teamwork. But when it comes to personal use of these networks, I think technology is taking us away from each other. It is making "keeping in touch" easy, but I feel the personal touch involved in 'keeping in touch' is diminishing. But then, maybe thats just me.
    PS: Even though I have doubts about the usability, I ALWAYS feel that technology is really cool! 😀

  6. Upasna Avatar

    I wish I could use them better professionally. However, I think they're a part of my life. And I strongly believe in privacy and awareness also around them but everyone shud take their own call …

  7. Tanvi Avatar

    I know what you are saying but I swing like a pendulum on the topic "presence on internet" … Clearly I am quite active, but what I want it to control "how much" … I digress … But as you started the post – to each their own!

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